It’s Father’s Day week, so it feels like it’s a good time for a little paternal media ranting. It’s something that has bugged me for years, but I finally got pushed over the edge by a current commercial.
Is it time for Dad’s to get a little respect in advertising? If there is one member of the family unit that is going to be the butt of the joke it is almost inevitably Dad. You can’t make jokes about stupid children because that’s just cruel. Moms have been off limits for years. Part of it, I suspect, was the traditional respect for moms (remember it’s MOM, apple pie, and the flag, not Dad), plus in this day and age, there are just too many landmines for male advertising execs making jokes that imply a woman is dumb.
So that leaves Dad. And this Dad has had enough.
Don’t get me wrong, I have no issue with being the brunt of the occasional joke. It would be nice if that particular honor was shared around the family a little more than it is, but hey, you’ve got to have a sense of humor about yourself. And, yes, sometimes Dad can be a dope, and, yes, that can be funny. So while I noted this commercial bias years ago, I just shrugged it off. It’s one of those arguments that you just can’t win.
What finally tipped me over the edge is the relatively new ad from the health insurance company, AFLAC. In it Mom comes to find Dad on his knees, holding a towel to his face. Junior, holding a baseball bat, explains that Dad “walked into my swing”. Dad takes exception to that description but no one pays any attention. Here’s where they pushed me over the edge. What follows is a discussion of how Dad’s apparently horrific facial injury might jeopardize the family’s Hawaiian vacation. It goes so far that Mom and Junior have a vote between the vacation or fixing Dad’s face. Hawaii wins. Mom’s reaction lets you know that the choice wasn’t even close in her mind.
This is the spot the company chose to run through Father’s Day.
Sorry, Dad. You’re nice to have around and all. But seriously, if it comes down us having fun or taking care of you? Aloha, baby.
The message here is that the supplemental medical insurance offered by the company means you’ll never have to make hard decisions. As a marketing concept, that’s fine. Surely there’s a better storyline than this. Surely, somebody, at some point, said: “Hey, is this really what we want running during Father’s Day?”
Because on Dad’s weekend let’s make sure he doesn’t get too full of himself. Gotta make sure he knows his place on the food chain.
Because it’s only Dad.
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