I get a lot of mileage some days out of people being dumb on various iterations of social media. For any kind of commentator, it’s just low hanging fruit. So easy, so tasty. Eventually, my love for the media in general forces its way to the front and inquires if, perhaps, I could use my tiny little platform to try and make things better, rather than simply mock.
Fine.
Social media is a train wreck. Sure, there are plenty of interesting items and fun little bits of intellectual flotsam and jetsam, but far too many of us out there really have no idea how to behave. I’m not talking about bad language or incivility, both topics that I have touched upon before.
I’m saying that a lot of us need to consider some guidelines for what we decide to share. Because some of us look pretty dumb out there on a regular basis.
So first, let’s set a basic guiding concept. As a general rule, social media is public. Too many people think they are speaking to a select group when they aren’t. Unless your restrictions are very carefully and tightly set, most of the world can see what you say. So begin by assuming that you are speaking in public. And don’t say anything that you would not be willing to shout while standing at a busy intersection.
As for specific rules, I’d really like to keep them simple. The New York Times just released updated social media rules for its reporters. They struck me as pretty common sense, but they do run on a bit. My first thought is that we could simply settle on “Wheaton’s Law”. This was propounded by actor Will Wheaton, best known for playing Wesley Crusher on “Star Trek – The Next Generation”. While concise, it is exactly four words long, the final word is one that is not always welcome in polite company. Look it up, and I think you’ll agree that’s it’s an excellent guideline.
A slightly longer guideline might be this which I first heard from comedian Craig Ferguson – Does it need to be said? Does it need to be said by me? Does it need to be said by me, right now? If the answer to any of those questions is no, it’s probably a good moment to take a step back.
Because the effect of not stepping back may be more than you bargained for in the heat of the moment. Just ask any of the folks who shot from the lip only to have the immediacy and breadth of the Internet come crashing down on them.
It’s not quite so amusing then.
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