Even the best relationships will hit a rough patch now and then. If the foundation of that relationship is solid, then you make your way through to the other side. I’ve been told that often the strongest part of a bone is where it has been broken. But sometimes the relationship needs a little help. In the worst case scenarios, it’s couple’s therapy. But sometimes you just need a little time apart.
I’m beginning to wonder our relationship with social media, and really, media in general. This time of year, some folks will give something up as part of a spiritual discipline. The number of people I hear deciding to walk away from media seems to be on the rise.
Is our relationship with our media dysfunctional? As a Baby Boomer, I’ve grown up with the media as a daily part of my life. More so than any generation before, but the generations that follow mine have upped the ante. A very large part of that is that media has become increasingly portable, and increasingly personal. It is the second part of that sentence that concerns me the most.
Our media has become more and more personally focused. We don’t have to watch or listen to what everyone else does. Through things like algorithms, our media services can design our media feeds so that we hear and see more and more of what we like. At the surface, that sounds like a wonderful idea. Rather than having to hear the Top 40 song that you hate so much so often, your feed only gives you what you like. And the world is a better place, right?
I’m beginning to wonder. Because it creates a world that is all about you, the modern model for media is one that takes us out of communal experiences to a much larger degree than ever before. It also inevitably narrows the world in which we live. There may be new experiences slowly mixed in, but because they are based on past preferences, we are less likely to find something new and innovative.
As we look around at a world that seems more and more hostile to that which is different, the question is: how much this new media cult of personality may be playing into it.
Which brings me back to my thoughts on relationships. Taking a little time away gives us the time to explore something new, different, and not so cookie cutter in our media. In doing so we can add depth and breadth to our lives that is less inwardly focused. Which in turn will make our time with our media more interesting as well.
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